100 Black Men FAQ

 


Best Practices

Cultural Navigation

How can mentors navigate cultural differences?
Approach with humility, avoid assumptions, ask questions, and respect traditions.

Representation

Why is representation important?
It builds trust, confidence, and aspiration by showing mentees what’s possible.

Strategies

What are key mentoring strategies?
Affirm identity, use asset-based language, be consistent, listen actively, encourage growth.

Bond Building

Academics

What’s your favorite subject and why?
“History—I love learning about how past events shape today’s world.”

Aspirations

What does success look like to you?
“Being financially stable and helping my community.”

Communication Preferences

How do you prefer to communicate—text, call, or meet?
“Texting works best during the week, but I’m open to meeting on weekends.”

Coping

What helps you feel calm when things get tough?
“Listening to music and journaling.”

Emotional Check-In

What’s been stressing you out lately?
“Balancing school and work—it’s hard to stay focused.”

Feeling Seen

What’s a moment you felt really seen or heard?
“When my teacher complimented my writing—it made me feel like my voice mattered.”

Future Vision

Where do you see yourself in five years?
“Graduated from college and working in tech or media.”

Hidden Dreams

What’s one career you’ve thought about but haven’t shared?
“I’ve always wanted to be a sports broadcaster.”

Icebreaker

What’s a fun fact most people don’t know about you?
“I can solve a Rubik’s cube in under a minute.”
What’s something you’re really proud of?
“I helped organize a school fundraiser that raised $1,000 for local families.”

Identity

What part of your culture makes you proud?
“Our family reunions—we celebrate with food, music, and storytelling.”

Interests

What do you love doing outside of school/work?
“I’m really into photography and hiking.”

Relationship Goals

What do you hope to get out of this mentoring relationship?
“Someone I can talk to who understands where I’m coming from.”

Resilience

What challenges have shaped who you are today?
“Growing up in a single-parent household taught me independence and resilience.”

Role Model

Who’s someone you admire and why?
“My grandmother—she raised five kids while working full-time and never complained.”

Self-Discovery

What’s one thing you’ve learned about yourself recently?
“I realized I’m more confident when I prepare ahead of time.”

Challenges & Solutions

Common Challenges

What challenges might mentors face?
Scheduling, mismatched expectations, misunderstandings, fatigue, systemic barriers.

Solutions

How can mentors overcome these challenges?
Set goals, use support networks, attend training, celebrate progress, practice self-care.

Getting Started

Application

How do I become a mentor?
Apply through your program’s website or coordinator. Background check and orientation needed.

Remote Mentoring

Can I mentor remotely?
Yes—via Zoom, phone, or messaging platforms. Consistency is key.

Support

Who can I contact for support?
Program coordinator or mentor support team. Peer groups and check-ins are often available.

Mentor Role & Expectations

Eligibility

Who can become a mentor?
Professionals, educators, leaders, or students committed to equity and youth empowerment.

Responsibilities

What is expected of mentors?
Build trust, meet regularly, set goals, provide guidance, and respect boundaries.

Training

Is training provided?
Yes—covering cultural humility, trauma-informed care, anti-racist practices, and development.

Program Overview

Distinction

What makes minority mentoring different?
Emphasis on cultural competence, representation, and equity.

Mentees

Who are the mentees?
Youth from racial, ethnic, or socioeconomically marginalized communities.

Purpose

What is the purpose of a minority mentoring program?
To close opportunity gaps by providing guidance, support, and access to resources for youth.

Supporting Mentees

Academic Support

How do mentors support academic success?
Help with study habits, school navigation, college applications, and mindset.

Career Support

How do mentors support career development?
Offer career exposure, resume prep, networking, and job shadowing opportunities.

Emotional Support

How do mentors support emotional well-being?
Provide safe space, validate experiences, build resilience, and refer to resources.
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